English

I read a fascinating article on BBC yesterday, and because it a topic that I think about a lot, I decided to write on it. Since moving to New Zealand, one of the things I have thought about is why is it so easy for so many people to understand American slang and lingo, but it seems to take practice for Americans to understand foreign English slang and lingo(be it Australian, Kiwi, British, etc)? The obvious answer is probably because of the television culture, but is this a flaw in the American culture that we are so sheltered from this part of our culture? Because it is certainly part of our culture--even though we broke away from British rule, the ancestry of our culture is in the UK and Europe.

I've been thinking about this for some time, and then I found this interesting article. It seems as though we have had more influence on the English culture than many would like to admit. Did you know the words lengthy, reliable, talented, influential, and tremendous were not English words until after the United States was established? Yes, some silly Americans invented those words! Crazy!

Another interesting fact I found in this article was that the English language is one of the few languages that is open to change and development. Many other languages do not accept new words into their vocabulary except through a thorough evaluation process done by some smart language people at institutes in various places. I remember this about Spanish when I studied in Spain. Not much has changed in hundreds of years simply because they won't allow it to change. There may be some slang words that develop along the way, but they would most likely not make it into a dictionary or a classroom.

Anyway, in my personal observation, Kiwi(and this is possible linked therefore to British) culture, takes very slowly to change in general. This can be a good thing, because things that have always worked stay working, and tradition doesn't change much. It can also potentially be a negative thing because things that should be modernized are done so very slowly. US culture has historically been very open to change(maybe more so California?), and thus is more open to new changes in language. People all over the world have to accept this change because it may be necessary to keep up with the modern world and because they might be good changes.

I love culture and while I love my American English, I do appreciate and enjoy learning new Kiwi-isms. Sweet-as, aye, and g'day are welcome into my vocabulary and I hope that they will brush off onto other Americans I know too! Hopefully we can all become more globally-aware English speakers as our world becomes more connected.

Thankfulness

I'm not one to quote Bible verses very often, and maybe I should be, but one of my favorite verses has always been "Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is my will for you". Even if you are not a Jesus follower, I believe the practice of being thankful is truly a powerful one, and one that I really haven't practiced enough lately. Thankfulness reminds us of the abundance we have, which is essential to remember in a world of so many with so little.

As I mentioned in my last post, the transition to New Zealand has not been the easiest, but this last week I got a job! I will be a Social Worker at Child Youth and Family, the child protection agency here in New Zealand. Although the location is not ideal(one hour commute), we don't have a second car yet, and it is provisional on NZ recognizing I am qualified to practice social work, I am nonetheless thankful. I am thankful that we now have two incomes. I am thankful that I am doing something I believe in--which is protecting children and working to conserve the family unit. I am thankful that I won't be left at home to think too much about things (a potentially dangerous thing for me). I am incredibly thankful for a husband who supports me in everything, even when I am potentially hard to live with. I am thankful to be living in a country with a mild winter(comparatively). I am thankful for summer coming around the corner. I am thankful for the delicious food that is abundant in New Zealand. I am thankful for a God who takes care of us and loves us and gives us an endless number of things to be thankful for.

I guess one of the main reasons I am thinking about being thankful lately is my lack of thankfulness and because of the season here, it feels like it should be thanksgiving, and so I guess the best thing to do is to be thankful.

What are you thankful for?

In New Zealand with a 'Kiwi'

We've been in New Zealand for just about 2 months now and Erlo and I are making an attempt at adjusting/readjusting to the culture. It's much more complicated that one would think to adjust to a culture that is different in practice and yet similar in appearance. I've found that my adjustment to the culture here has been more difficult than in say, Korea or Taiwan, possibly because I am almost expected to understand it because I speak the language. I still haven't quite been able to articulate everything that is different about this culture, but in the process, I am learning to be patient and trying to stay positive. More to come on the cultural differences in the months to come.

Erlo and I have settled into a two-bedroom rental and are slowly getting our heads around this grown-up world we have been thrown into. We are ecstatic about being close to beautiful beaches, a mountain range, and several wineries. I seriously shouldn't complain about any of this. The job hunt is still in progress for me, which is also teaching me patience and humility ;)

So here I am in yet another new home! I can't wait to see what adventures await me here!

Mrs. Jones

Well, it's done. Erlo and I got married in Thailand April 10, 2011. The wedding itself was more beautiful than I could have ever imagined. We had some of our bestest friends and both of our immediate families. Everybody got along and we all chilled for a few days together at the beach. It was exactly what I wanted. Because everyone had been chilling and getting to know each other before the wedding, the wedding was much less stressful and it was more about the partying...exactly what both Erlo and I wanted. We have heard so many stories about a wedding being just a time to see people and catch up for a few seconds...not enough time...only to retreat exhaustedly to your hotel room. Not to brag, but ours was truly a celebration. Yes, there were stressful things about it, especially the night before for me, but all in all it was truly the perfect wedding.

And now, at this very moment, Erlo and I are traveling to New Zealand to start our new life together. Saying good-bye, or see you later to my parents was a bit melancholy, as always, but we are excited to start our new life together and host the dozens of visitors promised to us in the near future.

Currently, we are in Sydney on a layover, and will arrive in Christchurch this evening. This week we will take our time to drive to Auckland where Erlo will start his job as a corporate event planner/salesperson in a hotel in West Auckland. I will continue my search for a job while I adjust to a strange new culture. ;) Erlo and I have been spoiled being in California around my family for so long and I am anticipating feeling the distance a little more than usual. It seems now I have another wonderful person to keep me comfortable however and I look forward to being spoiled by him.

I am loading the pictures from the wedding on my Picassa, so you will have to wait a little longer for those! New updates soon!

California Home

Been at home for a week now. For those of you wondering what I have been doing, yes, I have been busy. It seems that as much as you think you have done, there are always little things here and there to be done. We are tasting wines, buying favors, planning schedules, and getting plenty of rest. Being back in the States is always a bit of an adjustment, and planning a wedding doesn't make it easier, but it makes it a bit more exciting.

Tomorrow, Erlo and I are headed down to my sister Angela's place to hang out for a few days. On Sunday, they are having a bridal shower for me, where I will get to see some girlfriends I haven't seen in a long while. So excited!

So that's the update for now. Hope to see all of you who actually read this soon!!

Sunny California Welcome

Arrived to California on Wednesday. Erlo and I are in heaven. I guess it takes going away from this place for a bit(if you're from here) to truly appreciate it. March 3 yesterday and it was 65 and sunny. Wore a short sleeve and jeans. To Bay Areans, this is still cool, and we saw lots still wearing jackets.

I think we are going to have a busy month here! It's part excitement, part having a lot to do, but I am definitely not sleeping as much as I would like to. I've missed waking up to the quiet sun, a morning coffee, and morning toast. Haven't felt so relaxed in awhile, which is strange considering I have a wedding in 30something days!

Once again, I have been faced with culture shock. Not as much as when I came back from Taiwan since I did get the chance to come back a few times when I was living in Korea. Its the little things like having someone give you the right of way when you're crossing the street, men holding doors open, speaking English, and not having anyone stare. Yesterday I reminded Erlo that we never have to right in an elevator in Korea ever again(this was one of our least favorite activities; many Koreans seemed to lose common sense when on a lift). The smile on his face was quite impressive.

Yesterday we went for a long run without feeling heavy in the chest for the first time in awhile. It was such a beautiful day I felt like I could run forever!

Okay, I will stop with the giddiness. I've gotta get this day going!!

Transition

Well, the time is finally nearing...when I am leaving Asia! This time is different than 2 years ago when I was leaving Taiwan. Much much different. First of all, and most obvious, I am leaving with my fiance, and about to get married in about 2 months. Second of all, I am leaving with the intention of not coming back. Not even letting myself have the option of coming back. For any of you who have spent more than one year teaching English in Asia, I have a feeling you are thinking "yeah, that's what they all say", but its time.

It's time to start a new life with my new husband. Erlo and I have decided there is something valuable for us to start something new together. Obviously, even if we were staying here, getting married is starting new, but for us we want to start a new life in a new place. Together. We are excited about the prospect of being together to start a new chapter of our lives in so many different ways.

So here's the plan:

March 2: Fly to California. Spend time with family, see California, eat good food, prepare to marry.

April 3: Fly to Thailand. Relax on beach.

April 10: Get married

April 17: Go back to California.

April 30: Have a reception in California.

May 5: Fly to Christchurch. Honeymoon in Akaroa, New Zealand.

May 16: Done with honeymoon....look for place to live in Christchurch or Auckland.

And there you have it. When we go to NZ, we won't have a car, we won't have jobs, and we won't have an apartment. It terrifies me. We have money saved, but you never know, right? I think right now is a time to learn trust. Trust that we can take care of each other. Trust that we have made the right decision to have so much time off for wedding stuff. Trust our wisdom in budgeting and spending. But above all, trust in God. Yeah, there's the big one.

But more than anything, I am excited! I just hope the next several months I will be able to soak it all in. Remember the moments with friends and family. Savor the feeling of having dear ones surrounding me in one of the biggest steps in my life. I want to be able to relive the times in my head again and again for years to come. Oh, how great it will be!!